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Sex w/Annie is on WordPress

I've been trying to import all the post I've written from my Sex w/Annie WordPress blog to my blogspot. But for some odd known reason it's not working.

I've got all kinds of sexy delights for you all to read, just not here. So If you want to know how to keep your sex life in check you'll have to go to Sex w/Annie on WordPress.


Sometimes It's Not Sexy At All, Sexy Sunday # 21

I usually have my Sexy Sunday post written no later than Friday. But Life has a way of kicking our ass's when we least expect it. And not every Sexy Sunday is actually sexy. I have been under major stress lately. And for a woman who lives with chronic pain stress can make my pain levels go through the roof.


Scratch that Itch is Sexy Sunday #19

When was the last time you really had that itch scratched to the point of satisfaction?  And I'm not talking about scratching it yourself. I'm talking about a real down and dirty scratching. The kind of scratching where you can't help but lye there with your legs spread cause it just feels so F-in good.
We all need to have our itches scratched from time to time. And in order to get that kind of ecstasy you will need some sort of communication. That being said, Have you talked to your spouse/partner about how boring and monotonous your sex life has become?


Power of the Pussy, Sexy Sunday #10

While having a conversation with my hubby today he mentioned something that made a lot of sense. The power of the pussy. Yes you heard me right. You see most women don't even realize just how much power that little pink thing between their legs has.

And I believe if we did we could rule the world. You see most men love Pussy. And if you think about it women really do have the power. The power to get what we want. The power to make men do stupid things. In fact men will bend over backwards just to get to our powerful Pussy's.


Vacation Sex, Sexy Sunday #12

While on vacation this week in the sunshine state (which is more like fantasy island to a girl from Jersey), we realized staying with friends is great.  Unless you're the type of couple that is used to having sex more than once a week and when ever the mood strikes. So we had to get creative.

While driving home from the beach one afternoon I see this adult store next to this high end Fu-Fu, she-she boutique in a strip mall around the corner.  I make my hubby pull in. Well they didn't have much of a selection but I didn't need much. I ask the woman behind the counter where the bullets were. And She directs me to the wall display of about five. I ask her which one gives the best punch, the highest vibes. She hands me one and I realize there is no way I'm buying this vibrator unless I can feel how powerful it is.


Stimulate Her is Sexy Sunday # 18

We all know that if the wind blows a certain way or no way at all most men can be ready for sex at moments notice.   But that's not true for women.  Women are different when it comes to getting ready for some sexual pleasure. So listen up guys. Women need the dance, and by dance I mean the flirting, the foreplay.

Have you ever seen a male peacock or any bird for that matter do the mating dance for that chance to have sex with a female. It's really fun to watch but women know that men or most men aren't going to do that type of dance. Flirting with your lady is a kind of mating dance. And of course the reward for that little bit of effort is huge.So guys start brushing up on your flirting. Read about it. Get some new pick up lines. Yes I said pick up lines. Because even though you may have her she still wants you to woo her. 


Express Yourself Is Sexy Sunday # 20

I made it to Sexy Sunday #20. And this week I want to say EXPRESS YOURSELF! If you're not having mind blowing sex with your partner by now then you have no one to blame but yourself.
Think about it. If you're having better sex alone then with your partner, It's Time To Start COMMUNICATING!
  • Tell your partner what it is that you want, and how you're both going to get there. That should get your partners attention.
  • Even If you have to Stop in the middle of that boring stuff you're now calling sex and say; Hey! what the fuck are we doing?  This is NOT the kind of sex I've been reading about in Cosmo or on Sex w/Annie's blog then that's Ok.
  • At least you're talking. But make sure that he or she knows that it's up to both of you to get your sex life back on the OMG Express.

Come Here, By Tyler Knott Gregson.  I love finding love letters with a hint of kink. This one fits the bill perfectly.


Eleven Rules For Dating is Sexy Sunday # 22

I've gotten quite a few e-mails from both men and women who are reading my *SexySunday* post each week.  And they want to know what I think about dating? 

Well I think that there are so many lonely people out there.  They've either broken up with their spouse or have gotten a divorce.  So what are they supposed to do on a *SexySunday?*  How are they supposed to have a *SexySunday* when there's no one to share it with?

We are all in this sexy world together. And starting over is no joke.
So of course I did some research and this is what I found.
It's not as easy as it used to be when trying to find that special someone to go out with.

Predictable Sex is Sexy Sunday # 23

Most couples can't keep their hands off of each other when they're first dating. And if you're lucky sex doesn't have to become predictable after you've been in that relationship for a long period of time.

If for some reason you've lost the sizzle and now your sex life is barely a drizzle then it's time to make shit happen.  Wake up and say What the fuck because there's  no excuse if both of you are healthy for dull sex. 

If you want an amazing sex life then it's up to you and your spouse to make it happen. What happens behind closed doors is no one's business but your own. If it feels good do it.


Why is it So Hard to Get People to Write Reviews?

Do you write reviews?
Before I published my first and only book I must have read every article and every excerpt that came out about indie writing and publishing.
But the one thing they don't tell you is how to get the readers to write a simple honest review.

I have to say that besides doing promotional stuff, getting readers to post a review has been the hardest part of writing.


Afternoon Delight Sexy Sunday #17

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Original by Starland vocal, circa 1976, yea we are all getting old, haha..Enjoy!

Four o'clock has always been the time of day that we hubby and me, seem to want it most. And lately my hubby has been sending me tweets at about three in the afternoon. Here's a few;  "Get ready baby I'm coming home, or #Beready, home in 15 min, afternoon delight."


It's time for Sexy Sunday
Sex w/Annie, Sexy Sunday is every Sunday. This was the first posted on 2/9/14

Sunday Sex is when the pot of Italian gravy is cooking on the stove. You're sitting at your computer writing your second sexy novel and your husband has just finished checking out your new post on your pinterest Fantasies page.

Its Hot, Passionate get down and dirty Sex. There are no rules except make me cum. So what are you waiting for, get up go over to him/her, look into his/her eyes and say take me.

If you need some kind of preparation get to it. Jump in the shower. Tell him/her they need to be ready in thirty minutes. This is all you have to say; Meet me in the Bedroom in thirty five minutes. No questions needed. We all know what meet me in the bedroom means.


Quest for The Cures Continues | Cancer documentary

Quest for The Cures Continues | Cancer documentary

Click on the quest for The Cures documentary and watch what made me to write this post.

This past February my Mom left for Florida to spend time with her friends. She had the time of her life. Before she left she went to her liver doctors and they gave her a clean bill of health. She had made it to fifteen years with her new liver. Yes she had a liver transplant fifteen years ago. They told her to go and live her life. Then she got Cancer.

Dirk and Kam's Place: Feel Like Makin' Love ........

Dirk and Kam's Place: Feel Like Makin' Love ........: Source: thebesteroticphotos.tumblr Source: thebesteroticphotos.tumblr Source: ilovefullfigures.tumblr Source: ilovefullfigures...


My Other Blogs.

I'm not sure if you know this because I just realized it myself.  You can read my Sex w/Annie blog and Annie's blog the other side of me. Just click on the links above. They're both on WordPress. Go ahead move your mouse over the dark area with the titles I just gave you.


Where it began: Stephen My Brother

This story touched my heart. And I hope you will read so that it touches your heart too..

Where it began: Stephen My Brother: Some people are blessed with perfect families. I was just blessed. I want to tell you a little about my brother. He was born just over ...


Epidural injections? What happened to me can happen to you too.

If you are thinking about getting an epidural injection in your spine I ask you to watch this five minute video.

I have been living with Chronic back pain for twenty six years. Twenty five of those years due to arachnoiditis. And all because I received a mylagram the day before my laminectomy.  The surgery didn't help either. And so the pain persist. It's relentless. And there are days that I just want to scream. But I can't because it hurts too much.

The day I got that mylagram I knew something was wrong. I screamed and told the people who were administering that mylagram that something was wrong. The pressure felt like an elephant was sitting on my back. And as the table moved it only got worse. I had no idea I was going to have live with the consequences of that mylagram for the rest of my life. The technicians that administered that mylagram laughed and told me to calm down. Nice ha.

Now I live each and every day with Arachnoiditis. Living with chronic pain with no end in sight is not easy. But with an amazing pain management team I have quality of life. I'm living the best life possible. But winters are really hard on me. So we have decided to retire in Florida. There's only one problem,  Trying to find pain management in Florida.  I've been hearing horror stories about the doctors and the pharmacist. Yes I was shocked too.

 I don't want to look back in twenty years and say I should have gone to Florida.

But in order to get my dream I'm kind of stuck. If anyone is from Florida and knows a pain management doctor that's legit please send me an e-mail at

Think about that epidural before you wind up like me. Doctors that give epidurals only care about the money. Getting any kind of injection into your spine is not worth the risk. Believe me it can happen to you too..


Thank you & I'm Sorry...

I don't know if all of you realize this but my main blog Sex w/Annie, Lets talk about sex is on WordPress. This blogspot blog is used as a secondary.

Every Sunday I post my Sexy Sunday at Sex w/Annie blog on WordPress. And I will usually find some time to copy/paste the blog post over to this blogspot page once a month. But last time I tried this I got fed up.

When I copy/paste from one blog to the next this blog doesn't look right. The pages look blank. The pictures to the blogs don't even show up. And it's frustrating. And no one comes here to read anything I post anyway so I ask myself why bother?


Marie Lavender's Writing in the Modern Age: International Authors' Day plus a Giveaway

Marie Lavender honored all the authors she interviewed. She not only posted their names but posted their book covers as well. Thank you Marie, You are an amazing author and I am proud to call you my friend..

Marie Lavender's Writing in the Modern Age: International Authors' Day plus a Giveaway: If you haven't noticed yet, I was taking a bit of a hiatus this month from the blog.  Obviously, that didn't really happen...

This Crazy Blog and it's post...

I'm guessing that you can't copy paste from one blog to another.  If you try to do this you get a blog that looks like mine. Titles and pics.

I've written to Google. And No one seems to have an answer for me. I've also asked other bloggers. That didn't work either. What really gets me is that it used to work fine. And then it didn't.

So I apologize if my blog has given you any trouble. My suggestion would be to click on one of the titles that interest you. You will then be on my blog. That's where I have all the post you want to see and more.

WordPress is my home base. I use blogspot because it was the first blog I had. The first blog that didn't give me a hard time. It has always been so easy to figure out. That is until I started to copy & paste.

Laughter is the only way to get through this mess. Otherwise I would wind up driving myself insane. And that's just not going to happen. At least not today.  No today I will fake it till I make it. Or find the proper way to get my post to come up.. Either way I will keep posting..

Thanks for listening..

To see all my sexy post go to: 


Blog Problems, bear with me..

I have no idea what's happening with this blog, Trying to post from my WordPress is impossible. Even using copy and paste isn't working. Let me see if this tiny post decides to appear.

Thank you for your patience. Annie

UPDATE- Well it didn't work. Hahah.. All I can do is laugh. This blog is still fucked up and so I'm lost. If you want to read these blog post without all the interruptions and no confusion head on over to

See you on WordPress..

Annie Edmonds Author: To Do List, Sexy Sunday # 14

Annie Edmonds Author: To Do List, Sexy Sunday # 14



Smashwords: Amazon's Hachette Dispute Foreshadows What's Next ...

Smashwords: Amazon's Hachette Dispute Foreshadows What's Next ...: Amazon and Hachette Book Group are locked in an epic battle over the future of ebook publishing. The outcome of this dispute will have p...

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A Dirty Mind Makes for Interesting Conversation.. You have no idea what you're missing..If you need some help in the bedroom, some relationship advice or you just want to read some sexy blog post, then come on over. 

Does Your Sex Life Need Some Kink? Sexy Sunday # 15 
Are you and your partner tired of the same ole same ole sex positions? Are you stuck in a vanilla rut? Does your sex life need some kink? If you've been thinking about what's been missing from your sex life for awhile now then it's time to start talking to your spouse/partner.

Your sex life is yours to mess with. And as long as you and your spouse/partner are willing to change things up a bit then by all means go for it. Life is to damn short. 

How long can you keep doing the missionary position before you decide it's time for something new. Are you going to wait for five, ten or even thirty years. Vanilla can and does get boring. If your sex life is in need of something new why not get on the internet and see what gets your juices flowing. 

And guys please remember that your spouse is not a porn star. She needs you to start slow. Or you're going to scare her and she will never want to try something new again. Ever!

Ask your spouse if he or she is happy with your sex life. Then ask them if they would like to spice it up a notch or two. This is the kind of thing that brings couples together. It's exciting to start thinking about what you want to do to your wife/partner. Or what she wants you to do to her. Believe me if she's reading or read any kind of romance books she has thought about it. This is nothing new.  

She just has been afraid to bring it up. Which by the way blows my mind when I hear that couples don't talk about adding something new to their bedroom routines. Sex doesn't have to be and shouldn't be boring.

Boring sex would be like eating peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for the next five years for dinner. It's gets old and quick. We all need variety. Haven't you heard that variety is the spice of life. 

Did you think they were talking about a cook out? Don't be afraid to try new things. What the worse that could happen, you don't like it.  And then it's on to the next kinky exciting thing. Just don't give up. Sooner or later you will both find something that floats you boat or gives you that tingle you've been waiting for.

The difference between normal sex and kinky sex or Vanilla is up to you. Ladies if you want to dress up and go to a swanky hotel, sit at the end of the bar and have your man pick you up then by all means do it. If this is what turns you on then what are you waiting for. But remember that when he takes you home it will still be the same ole same ole. 
So talk to your man tell him what's on your mind. And men if you want your woman to lay naked on the bed with her hands above her head waiting to be tied up than you have to let her know.

If you want your women to get to the point where she plays with herself in front of you then you have to start getting a little or lot kinky yourself. Go to the front of my page and click on the Goodvibes banner I have to the left. 

Then start adding things to your cart. There's even a section on how to or what to do. What have you got to lose except your relationship. Sooner or later neither one of you is going to be in the mood for each other. And if they aren't in the mood for you who will they be in the mood for.

A marriage or relationship needs to be revitalized every now and again. Other wise it's going to get stale. And who wants stale peanut butter and Jelly sandwich. Come on you have to agree that this post is making you think about what you can do or add to your sex life that will give it that spark.  

What is it that turns you on? Is it thinking about getting hot wax dripped on your chest or her nipples. Or is it seeing her newly shaved pussy with a dildo in it while you lick that clit till she's screaming for you to give it to her. And when she finally orgasms make sure you look at her. Because she is even more beautiful than she was before you started.
I'm getting wet just writing this stuff. I have no doubt my hubby is getting lucky when I'm done with this post.

How about some nipple clamps and a soft silky blind fold to start off with.  Add some bondage tape or under the bed restraints, your all set for an hour or two of hot Kinky sex with no vanilla in sight. Remember that you love each other. And when he takes that ridding crop out and smacks your ass that you can always tell him weather you like it or not. This is your sex life. So start acting like its yours.

If you want to have a long lasting relationship start by communicating what it is that you want. Don't expect your partner to read your mind. If you can't wait for that package to come from Goodvibes than by all means use your imagination and get started today. Send your spouse a text message to get her/him in the mood. "Sex tonight?" 

Might be a good start. But first let them read this blog or they might think you've lost your mind when you start tying her up with your neck tie.

And remember to keep it light. Laughter is a good thing. So is lube. As I always say don't forget the lube. 

I hope you have a very kinky Sexy Sunday..

Leave a comment or Ask me a question, Or maybe you have an idea for a Sexy Sunday post.  Send me an e-mail aedmonds315@gmail .

Click on this link    Or you can go to my wall and click on one of the other Goodvibes links.  Invest in your sexlife by buying a magic wand, and a few other sexy things. 

Come follow my Sex w/Annie blog on WordPress. 

Fantasy land, Sexy Sunday # 16

I wondered what to write for this weeks Sexy Sunday post. And as I strolled through the pages of Cosmo, Hanky Panky, and Doctor Laura Berman I found there was a theme being written.
Fantasies are whats for Sexy Sunday. It seems everyone is talking about fantasies. What kind of fantasies you ask? Well that's up to the couple. But you can bet your sweet bippy that someone somewhere is fantasizing about their own sweet sexy fetish of choice and there are even more that stopped fantasizing that are now acting on those fantasies.


To Do List, Sexy Sunday # 14

Originally posted on, Sex w/Annie

Come see this post on
I was doing some research as I always do before I write my Sexy Sunday blogs and I came across a few articles on what else, SEX.  All of these articles were pretty much blaming women for their own dull and non existent sex lives. Is it because women put sex on the bottom of the to do list?.


A Beautiful Devotion

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Orgasmic Evening, Sexy Sunday # 13

Remember when we all saw Meg Ryan fake an orgasm? The way she did it says to me that she must have had a real Orgasm at one time or another.

Touch me! Sexy Sunday # 11 is Sex w/Annie.

We all need human contact.  It's just nice to be touched. And sure we can touch ourselves and have fun doing it. But is that how we really want to have sex?

I know for me I want to be touched by my husband in ways that no one else can touch me. And touching goes both ways. I touch him and he touches me.

He knows every inch of my body, actually knows it better than I know it myself. I love that about him. And when he walks up behind me, moves my hair off my neck and bites that erogenous zone. Oh yes, I get goosebumps just thinking about it.

Where's the Craziest Place You've Ever Had Sex, Sexy Sunday # 9 

Where is the craziest place you've had sex?  I'm not talking about the positions you can get your body into. I'm talking about that night you did it out in that grassy field. You know the place where anyone could have walked by and caught you.


What's the secret to Sexual Gratification? Sexy Sunday #7

If you want it you have to go and get it..

I like where the next generation is going where SEX is concerned. Their relationships need work but their sex lives are a lot more open and free than they were when I was in my twenties or even my thirties. These women aren't afraid to hook-up or have a one night stand. If they want to have SEX they find someone who can pleasure them and give them that mind blowing ORGASM with no strings attached. They get instant SEXUAL gratification. They even have a name for it Friends with benefits. I love that.

Sexy Sunday #8 Naughty Little Sex Shop.. 

This past Friday night my hubby and I decided to do something very exciting and a little kinky. We had done it once before along time ago and had a lot of fun with it so why not do it again.


The Sexy Challenge, Sexy Sunday # 5

I'm hoping that some if not all of you are starting to have more sex. And that you are talking to your partners about what it is you want and like.


Dirk and Kam's Place: Author Showcase - Annie Edmonds

Dirk and Kam's Place: Author Showcase - Annie Edmonds:   Please welcome,  Annie Edmonds ! 1. . For those who might not be familiar with you, would you be a dear and tell the reader’s a li... is my Sex w/Annie on WordPress. This is where all the kinky fun starts.  


So what is Sexy Sunday

Every Sunday on my Sex w/Annie, Let's talk about sex WordPress blog I write a post for couples who need a push in the right direction where their sex life is concerned.

This was the first posted on 2/9/14. Follow me as I do my best to help couples find their sexy side once again.

My Sex w/Annie blog is a place where couples can read my blog together and figure out how to put some spice back into their Bedrooms.

I may not have a PhD or a psychology degree, but what I do have most doctors will never have. And that's a thirty year marriage. Yes thirty years together with the one man who stole my heart and promised to make me laugh every single day. And yes he has kept that promise.

Through all the ups and downs I found a way to keep the spark lit where my sex life was concerned.

And I did it despite living with constant chronic pain.  I was in an auto accident twenty something years ago that has left my spine full of scar tissue, bulges and something called arachnoiditis.

But I'm a Jersey girl. And as I always say, where there's a will there is definitely a way. Follow my blogs as I post my Sexy Sunday each week.

Maybe you too can find your sexy side and start communicating with your spouse once again. Or you can start reading my Sexy Sunday post each week for some kinky ideas that just might get your juices flowing. It's worth a shot isn't it?

I try and re-blog to this blogspot but I have so much more information on my WordPress blog. Hope to see you there. Annie

The Time is Now! Sexy Sunday # 4

So I have been doing a lot of thinking about this fourth installment of Sexy Sunday all week. And today this is for the Ladies. But guys you too can learn a lot by listening to what I have to say. You might even be able to help your lady get started.

Spice it up! Sexy Sunday # 3

Here goes. I would love it if you could all take a trip to the adult toy store this week. Yup you heard me right. I know some of you are thinking this lady is out of her mind. My wife or husband is never going to step foot into one of those shops. Haha..

Orgasm Anyone? Sexy Sunday # 2

I have decided to do a Sexy Sunday post each week. If all goes according to plan it should be up no later than 4:00 pm each week. Not everyone likes to talk about sex so I'm trying to open up a dialogue where it's Ok to talk about sex with your spouse or significant other each week.

And who knows if all goes according to my plan more couples will be enjoying each other at least once a week. I can see it now Monday mornings there should be more smiling faces showing up for work all because of that sexual escapade you had the day before. Make sure you text or call your spouse tomorrow just to say you love them and that you enjoyed your Sexy Sunday.


Are you having SEX yet?

I have two blogs. And getting them to co-mingle just seems impossible. So I am going to write this post and hope that some of you might be able to follow me and read my Sexy Sunday post each week.

There has to be a way to get what I post at one blog to post at another. This way I won't have to write a post to let the readers know that there is an amazing dance going on between me and my followers on WordPress.

You see I am trying to get more couples to have way more sex than they have been. Yes you read that right. And if I can do this there will be happier people coming into work on Monday mornings.


Happy Valentines Day Daddy..

Today being Valentines day I miss my Dad. You see this was not just an ordinary day to a man who had a wife and son and three daughters.  Valentines day meant something special to my Dad. It was a day that he could give each of his girls a token of his love. For my Mom she got a card and one long stem Red rose. And his girls all received a card and some candy to show us just how much he loved us.


New Jersey Native Says Her Erotic Romance is Bringing Couples Together

New Jersey Native Says Her Erotic Romance is Bringing Couples Together

Jersey Native and new indie author Annie Edmonds says her erotic romance book is bringing couples together one book at a time. Sure its not easy to be an indie author. But when you receive messages and e-mails thanking you for keeping a marriage together well its all worth it.

Winfield Park, NJ, January 23, 2014 --( Jersey Native and new indie author Annie Edmonds says her erotic romance book is bringing couples together.