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We all need human contact. It's just nice to be touched. And sure we can touch ourselves and have fun doing it. But is that how we really want to have sex?
He knows every inch of my body, actually knows it better than I know it myself. I love that about him. And when he walks up behind me, moves my hair off my neck and bites that erogenous zone. Oh yes, I get goosebumps just thinking about it.
So let me see if I can help you get intimate by touching your spouse. If you are trying to jump start your sex life you need to start with no distractions. If the kids are home this isn't going to happen. Now I'm not saying never. But for the jumping off point you will need to be alone. After that it won't matter whose home.
Bring all the essentials, vibrators, lube, dildo's, blindfold, did I say Lube. If your women has felt less than sexy or her libido is out of whack it's time for some Zestra or something like Zestra. Pick up a packet at your pharmacy.
If you can both plan for this getaway the build up to the date can be very exciting. Remember this is your chance to get away and re-connect. Start shopping for some new and exciting toys and lingerie as soon as you make the date. Surprise each other.
Talk about this before hand. Make like you're single and have fun with it. And don't get excited if your partner starts getting attention from other men or women. Remember they are going home with you.
You should both be relaxed enough to start the next faze which is the massage.
Now getting a massage doesn't have to mean intercourse. But I know if I'm getting or giving a massage I want it to lead to sex. I can't help it. When I'm getting touched like that in places like that, and with a slippery substance. Oh Hell yea I want sex.
When you hear the sound of your partners voice that alone can get you excited, wet. There's nothing wrong with a happy ending.
After a getaway like this, you will both have that connection and you will be planning that next get away. You'll be more apt to touch your partner on a daily basis. And he/she will touch you more often too.
The magic that can happen with one night or weekend can last a lifetime if you do it right.
I hope you have a Sexy Sunday.. And don't forget the lube!