I've gotten quite a few e-mails from both men and women who are reading my *SexySunday* post each week. And they want to know what I think about dating?
Well I think that there are so many lonely people out there. They've either broken up with their spouse or have gotten a divorce. So what are they supposed to do on a *SexySunday?* How are they supposed to have a *SexySunday* when there's no one to share it with?
It's not as easy as it used to be when trying to find that special someone to go out with.
We used to go out with friends to a bar. We drank and Played some pool. And if you were lucky a great guy or gal walked into your life. It was that simple, yes things were a lot easier when I was dating.
And most people who were in a long term relationship find it hard to make that first step into dating again. But that doesn't mean you can't hook up with someone for some sexy time. They call that friends with benefits now a days. We used to just call it getting used, but that's besides the point.
There's eHarmony.com, Matchdot.com , cupid.com, Plentyoffish.com, Christiandating.com, kinkydating.com, bdsmdating.com. Seniordating.com . Blackpeoplemeet.com , howaboutwe.com, ourtime.com, and the list goes on and on.
But if a social network is not your thing why not try taking a walk on the beach. You just never know who you will meet collecting shells. Plus there's always a beach bar near by for a few cocktails. Get to know the person you are attracted too. If you don't live close to the beach try going to the park.
Think about what it is you want. Take that list out of your purse and start checking them off as he smiles and says yes he's on board for that.
Most relationships that have broken up complain that the sex was awful. So make sure you get the kind of sex you've always wanted. And if you don't know what that is just yet. Well it's time to find out, don't you think?
Here's a few things to think about:
Go on the internet together, For woman Punch in cunnilingus and make the guy or gal watch a video. Practice makes perfect. If he or she shy's away from vibrators or feels threatened by them it's time for them to GO. NEXT!
If they are making you pay for everything,Run! Respect is a two way street. You don't mind paying for some of the date but if you're paying for everything it's not right. This is the kind of guy that will take your paycheck and give you an allowance. NOT! and NEXT!
But if you only suspect he or she is married then you have to do some detective work. Try leaving something like a bra or money clip in their car. Wait a few days and ask for it. If you don't get it back the spouse has it.
Can we all say CHEATER!.
Think about it, If they will cheat on their spouse they will cheat on you too. They may say that their spouse is the worst. But there are always two sides to every story. And you don't need that kind of drama in your life. NEXT!
Well there's no better feeling in the world.Well there is, but that's what *Sexy Sunday* is for.
Or Magic Monday', Tease me Tuesday, Whip it out Wednesday, Titillating Thursday, Fuck me Friday, and of course Suck me silly Saturday.